There are no guarantees in life.
It’s what led me to a basement Mexican restaurant on a dark, industrial street in Manchester on Thanksgiving. Merely one of many steps on the path to Anfield Road.
I don’t believe in bucket lists. I believe in do lists. Why dream something when you can make it happen?
For a lucky few, the reality is as good or better than the dream. Charmed existence I’ll admit, even clearer after a week focused on Merseyside.
Not every dream can be realized. No, you will not become the next Messi or become the quarterback of the Eagles. But a dream like stepping inside and experiencing one of the hallowed grounds of sport - maybe for you it’s Wrigley Field, or Fenway, or Lambeau Field or Old Trafford - can happen. And I don’t believe in any time like the now to make it so.
Temper expectations and lead a life bolstered by bonuses.
In reality, I booked a week across the Atlantic so I could sing an old musical number in a chorus of 40,000 for two and a half minutes. That was the singular requirement, the singular expectation. Beyond, the bonuses were innumerable.
You can step inside one of the meccas of sport, but it sure is easier when you have generous, well-connected friends and I had that in spades. The hard part - actually getting tickets to both a home game and, a couple of days later, among the 3,000 away end tickets to another - came together no thanks to me. It came from the strangest of places, a die-hard Manchester United supporter named Lee Carter.
Generosity from friends and sometimes more impressively from strangers was a never-ending motif of the trip, like Lee’s fantastic sister Rachel and her partner Nikki, who hosted us Friday night, or the guys from The Anfield Wrap (a podcast I listen to weekly), who I tweeted at Saturday night and proceeded to hang out with late night Saturday in Liverpool and was invited to sit in on the podcast taping the following day at the ‘top of the tower.’ Or the beers and lunch these guys treated me to the next day, just some American Red welcomed with open arms.
Fortune seemed to smile on myself and travel partner Tim Raub - an American Red whose Anfield dream began well before mine and not just because he’s older than I am - from the start, a seamless journey from plane to train to strolling in a straight line toward our downtown Manchester hotel.





After my only proper meal of fish and chips, the road north took us to stadium No. 3 on the day, Bolton Wanderers and what is now Macron Stadium - Reebok to all of us - with a skybox view thanks to that Carter sweet-talking. Bolton has it figured out with a hotel affixed to the stadium with rooms that you can watch the game from. (I smell a league trip next season!)

After a few pints at the neighborhood bar back in Adlington for the nightcap - only Lancashire cask ales if you’re doing it right - it was time to recover for the centerpiece day of the trip.
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After a quick stop at our hotel, I ducked my head and slinked into a black taxi. “Up to Anfield, please.”

The surrounding area was as advertised, dilapidated neighborhoods in a crawling state of gentrification, construction going on behind walls in preparation of LFC’s forthcoming announcement it will expand the main stand.
The character and atmosphere of a stadium embedded in a neighborhood, something lost in Manchester or South Philly for that matter, was moving. We caught a couple pints in The Albert, situated practically on the ground of the stadium, to soak in a bit of the matchday experience before meeting up with Dave Rowe, LFC Academy coach, who gave us his season tickets for the day.
Then Gerry came on.
I didn’t fully realize it until the end of the trip just how much music plays a role in the soccer fan experience in England. In the U.S. you go to watch a game, millionaires putting on a show for paying spectators. In the U.K. you interact with the game and become a part of it. At my core, I think it’s why my fandom for LFC rates above any other team despite the distance or lack of lifelong ties to the club or city. It’s not a coincidence that I find it odd to watch players sprinting, dripping sweat while spectators scarf down a hot dog, plate of nachos and a beer. Or why you’ll find me standing between the benches, not up in the press box, when I cover a match.
Fandom is strange, which I suppose led me into journalism.
Being a part of a chorus as we lend our support to a cause makes much more sense to me.
The lifers throughout the Kop side of the Main Stand - our seats were with many obviously long-time season ticket holders who were at the game only because that’s just what they do at 3 p.m. on a Saturday - weren’t so affected to hear, ‘When you walk...’
I’d lent my voice to the anthem. Pilgrimage accomplished.
On current form, there were no grand expectations from the game. I wasn’t there for a win, but I had come all this way. A training session-worthy first half offered little. But Liverpool improved in the second half and the moment built. The 40,000-plus of us inside Anfield knew it and we let it be known with a hair-raising wall of sound, hearing the roar inside that stadium worth the price of admission alone.

It was dark, felt like 10:30, and a celebratory steak and ale pie hit the spot, but it wasn’t making it light again. It was 5:15. Now what? You plan for your big moment, not what to do next.
After a few hours back in the room, I’d lasted. Tim hadn’t. It didn’t seem right to end a monumental day with a whimper so I walked without a plan or destination.
I found what I hadn’t expected: a modern, thriving metropolis with a vibrant nightlife. I strode anonymously, not people watching, more energy feeling. I was alone - except not at all - in a place I’d never been before, not knowing where I was going, but knowing where I was, blessed by a GPS-enabled phone and map. I wasn’t lost.
I despise feeling like a tourist. I don’t know if it’s irrationally thinking I’m being judged by the locals or the desire to belong. As with all things, the truth lies somewhere in the middle I suppose. Some people travel and want to see the sites. I go for the culture.
I hadn’t sorted that part out for the Liverpool leg of the trip. Blessed with the phone in my hand (a bigger victory than you’d realize) I tweeted at some of the primaries from The Anfield Wrap, a twice-a-week LFC podcast that is a fixture of my week. I hoped for a tip on a cool place to go. What I got was an invitation from TAW’s John Gibbons, who splices a local music flair into the podcast, to be he and his crew’s best friend for the next 15 hours.
The place to be was ‘Liquidation’ in the basement at Heebie Jeebies, an Indie dance party - Bloc Party’s ‘Helicopter’ comes to mind - that was perfectly not fit for the 18-22 crowd upstairs packed in with the Black Eyed Peas blaring. Welcomed like an old friend, I felt like an honorary Liverpudlian, not the outsider that at times gave me trepidation about cheering a team as my own that was founded and exists as part of a community far from my own.
But I suppose all sports franchises were built that way. Players were once members of the community. But big business and riches enveloped the foundation and it’s all become disconnected. England and its football has just hung on to the old days longer.
As that divide increased, distance decreased. Technology allowed me know what band to see 3,400 miles away, how to walk around Liverpool or how to connect with strangers. It also allows an American to follow a team an ocean away just as closely as someone who lives around the corner, in some ways even better with the superior TV coverage in the States.


A pint of Guinness and goodbye to our absurdly hospitable new friends led us to the Liverpool museum before an easy evening to recharge the battery.
The night couldn’t be a total snooze. There was ground to cover. Or underground to cover.
When we had arrived in Liverpool to drop off our bags at The Richmond Hotel we met concierge Les, whose story is the opposite of what you’d expect from a guy sitting at a desk at a luxury hotel. But Les, in his twilight now, knows music: he was a former roadie for Deep Purple and Whitesnake. When we first met him he talked up the Cavern Club, made famous as the place the Beatles were ‘discovered’, a must-see and he sung the praises of the Beatles cover band that plays there, namely the brothers who play as and look like Paul and John.

Les knows his music.
(The Mersey Beats, Jimmy and Tony Coburn included, were playing a single 3-hour block our entire stay. It naturally and coincidentally fell on the time we just so happened to show up.)
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There was no easing into Monday. There were things to be done and a return to Anfield topped the list.
I knew coming in, the electricity of match day would be too much to make one trip to Anfield sufficient. A tour was in order. It wasn’t the most comprehensive tour I’ve ever been on, but a few landmarks were worth the price of admission: the scaled-down locker room (that Mark Cuban could do quite a number on) and getting a picture snapped sitting between the spots of the captain and the future captain, the iconic ’This is Anfield’ sign and walking down the steps and out the tunnel into an empty Anfield, quiet but some kind of resonance of the energy that resides there on European nights and other match days lingers.
I got the photo of the Kop from the manager’s box that was destined to be my Twitter cover photo, so there’s that.
I was a sponge for as much LFC history as I could take in, knowing most every name, but not always knowing their exploits. The club museum inside Anfield was more well done than I had envisioned as it touched on the history of the stadium, the greats, the memorabilia with great visual effect. The dark room that glowed solely around the five ‘big ears’ - the Champions League trophy - was a sight regardless of your club affiliation.

We stepped out of Anfield and onto Walton Breck Road. I knew where I was trying to go - across Stanley Park to Everton’s Goodison Park - but the perspective was off. A helicopter would have made it easier for me, but I made due.
A couple right turns and I was looking at Dixie Dean. It seems every team loves making statues of their icons and Everton isn’t counterculture. Dean was a Toffee in the 1920 and 30s and remains the club’s best ever. Maybe they can find an all-time great this century, too…

I knew it ahead of time - it was a special family night with the Everton U21s hosting Sunderland U21s at Goodison for free - but that didn’t dim the shine of getting free tickets. Especially in an era of the big business of sport becoming ever more prevalent, a tiny gesture goes a long way.
We headed back downtown in time for the Magical Mystery Tour to see the sites of the Beatles before returning back to Goodison for the game that night.

Tuesday’s focus was all about getting to Leicester, a place few Liverpudlians had ever been or had wanted to go. I eased into the day, wandering around downtown and the palpable buzz of the imminent holidays.
I’d learned some of the history, specifically of the toll World War II took on Liverpool, Sunday afternoon at the Museum of Liverpool and read a list of must-see spots that included the Church of St. Luke, a church that was critically damaged during the Liverpool Blitz in 1941. It’s in ruin though the walls and tower remain, what’s left still standing in the middle of downtown in memorial of the lives lost in the war.
From street level, you might not even realize St. Lukes is just a skeleton. Upon closer examination it makes for a striking visual as you peer inside a window to reveal the sky, perfectly blue with swathes of wispy clouds on a crisp early December morning.

Or maybe it’s just the opposite: outside of that first moment of misfortune, St. Lukes stands strong many years later, its place in downtown fortified, a symbol of perseverance and memorial. Perspective is a choice.
So I sat, drank a coffee and watched my breath. And reflected.
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At the start of the trip, right before leaving for the airport, we booked a place on the Spirit of Shankly supporters group coach. We had a seat to get to Leicester, but getting to that seat wasn’t the simplest proposition.
We were due to meet the coach where the M82 turns to an expressway at a bar called The Rocket. So we hopped the train and headed that direction, easily off at our stop. But with the multi-level highways and concrete chaos around there, there was no direct way to the establishment that was about 1,000 feet away from the station. Instead, a circuitous 20-minute walk through some neighborhood to get there.
Our stay was brief. We got there in good timing and ordered a pint, hopefully grabbing a bite to eat. We were in the right place it seemed, some younger guys with bags full of beer ready for the ride. Within three minutes of taking a seat, these younger guys were on the move, hearing one say, ‘There’s the coach’ as they bolted out the door and ran across an eight-lane highway.
Glad we hadn’t ordered food. Unsure of what to do but sure we didn’t want to miss the coach, we were on the move too, scaling guard rails, running through traffic to get across to the bus stop across the way.
It wasn’t our bus, but at least we were in the right place I came to learn after chatting up some of the locals. I’m still not sure what The Rocket had anything to do with the pick-up spot, I just hope the final third of my beer didn’t go to waste.
The Spirit of Shankly bus arrived and was mostly full. I sat down in an available seat next to nearly the last person I’d have expected to be sitting beside. He was in his 50s or early 60s, refined, wearing a cardigan sweater and reading a book. We chatted for stretches of the ride and I learned that he was a historian and architect (for lack of better description) and would often hold seminars at universities. About that hooliganism…
The singing began early and built as we approached, many on loop enough that I was able to pick them up and be armed with them to join in during the game.
There wasn’t time to hit a pub before the game because an American with a phone would have been a superior navigator to an English bus leader and driver (which became abundantly clear on the five-hour trip back inexplicably through Sheffield and many mountainous roads, the one blemish of the entire trip).
Our seats were as good as you could hope for, just off the corner flag around 10-15 rows up that was elevated enough to see the entire field well. Simon Mignolet’s shakiness was on display early and the Foxes led early but Adam Lallana leveled at the far end with a one-touch smash through traffic to go into halftime 1-1.
Back on Monday during the Anfield tour, I made it a point to get a picture taken between the hanging jersey spot of the current and future captains, Steven Gerrard and Jordan Henderson. Players come and go on every team, but Gerrard is LFC for life and Henderson appears to have a long Anfield career ahead of him. Serendipity scored for me when those two each scored goals - Henderson on a pretty backheel from Raheem Sterling - and ran to celebrate in our corner as the 3,000 of us sang our hearts out and were sent home from that night, that week as happy as can be.
Not everyone will have the same good fortune on their dream trip. But there aren’t any guarantees they won’t.